Who's the Judge?

I have an acquaintance who I have known over the last several years.  And through various superficial interactions and observations, I have made several presumptions about her in my mind.  This past year I have been able to get to know her a little better and have found that she is a very caring and loving, generous with her time and resources, and truly believes in the goodness of those around her.  These are all contrary to to the image I had made of her in my mind. 

It was as if Jesus gently telling me, “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you." Matt. 7:1-2  and "Do not consider (her) appearance..., for the Lord sees not as man sees; man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” 1Sam 16:7